Rules

Hi!  I’m Jay Graf, an Ohio Medical Board Licensed Massage Therapist. I'm in business to make you feel better and believe it is my caring and spiritual nature that sets me apart from other body workers in the Central Ohio Area.  It’s my goal to make you feel at home while giving you a quality massage and saving you money.  Thanks for your patronage!

Clothing/Nudity issues

The first rule is this:  I will never give a massage in the “buff,” so please don’t ask!  The City of Columbus has declared it illegal for masseurs and masseuses to give a massage naked as of December 2006.  While I provide a set of sheets for each client, it is your option to be under or over these sheets.  If you choose to be under the sheet, I will respect your privacy and keep you completely covered during your massage.  If you choose to be over the sheet, please respect my privacy.  Nudity can be spiritual or sexual.  

PLEASE keep a spiritual sense of your nudity while I work for you.! 

Any sexual behavior that I deem inappropriate will end the massage, which you will still be charged for.

Exceptions to the term “full body”

 
Stereotypically, the abdomen is ignored in an hour massage.  It is included if you purchase an hour and a half.  Please know, however, that if you are experiencing constipation or stomach cramps I will make an amendment to this, if asked.

Music

Most people have pet peeves, one of ours, as a professional, is music.  It’s music that helps each session feel different.  Unless asked for silence or a particular type of music, I will have my computer randomly selecting relaxing songs for each massage.  The music is the key to a great massage.  Please know, however, that you are more than welcome to bring your own music or, as said before, choose silence.

No-call/No-shows

In my opinion, everyone is allowed a mistake (especially us).  Therefore, I'm not hardfast to this rule, but:  If you make a habit of scheduling and not showing up you may be asked to pay a $15 fee. I would ask you to pay this fee to compensate for time that could have filled with a paying client.  There are times that I have to cancel appointments, this rule works for you in the same way.  You receive $15 off or an extra 15 minutes of time, depending on the situation. 

Oils & Lotions

I use an unscented oil that, for most, is absorbed by the skin by the time the massage is over.  Lotion can be substituted at no extra cost to you. 

Should you feel the desire or need to bring your own oil, it is permissible, but will not result in a reduction in the cost of your massage.  Should you choose to add aromatherapy, the cost is $10 and any remaining oil is yours to take with you.

Outcalls

Outcalls are arranged by appointment only.  If either I feel it appropriate, I can schedule outcall appointments during or off our regular schedule.  The cost is an additional $15 (within the I-270 perimeter, there is an extra charge for those outside the Columbus I-270 outer belt) and we bring table, linens, and oils.  

Promptness

Please be on time.  I don’t carry many rules, but this is a big one.  I will always do my best to have at least a ½ hour between clients.  This guarantees your confidentiality.  Please know that if you’re early you may compromise my preceding clients’ confidentiality.  If you’re late, you may compromise the confidentiality of the following massage.  Please be on time.  Being either late and early is inconsiderate to others.

Scheduling

To see an online calendar, click the link that says "Calendar."  If you see a time that says, "Available X-X," then you may select any 30, 60, or 90 minute amouht of time within that available time limit.  Simply email me (jgraflmt@yahoo.com) to request your time.

Sexual Misconduct

Any display/attempt of sexual misconduct can and will terminate the massage immediately.  You will  be asked to leave and expected to pay the full amount of time you scheduled without any discounts.  In addition, clients who have been dismissed for sexual misconduct will no longer be welcome in the future as clients.  Please be warned. 

Showers

Showers are allowed before or after your massage for an additional $5 fee for shower supplies, water, and towels.  *Please note that I will not be held responsible for things such as slipping in the shower, the shower being too hot or cold, etc.  This is at your own risk.  I simply provide the shower, soap, and linens.

 
Time

Hours are approximations.  An hour massage could take as little as 50 minutes, or as long as 1 hour 10 minutes.  If the massage takes longer due to my judgment, you will not be charged extra.  If, however, you ask for extra maneuvers or time, you will be charged a rate of $1 per minute.

What to expect

(Please also checkout the TIPS section of this webpage for more information)

Every person is different in how they react and feel.  This is especially true with massage.  I rely on my clients to inform me if something doesn’t feel right.  This goes from the pressure given to the music played while giving a massage.  If you don’t orate that you’re not completely satisfied, I won’t be able to satisfy you.  

During your massage there are only a few times that I need your help.  Therefore, my recommendation is that you concentrate on breathing.  This distracts your mind and allows your muscles to relax naturally.  Once in a relaxed state, your muscles are in a better state for me to “wring” the toxins from them, which will, in turn, make you feel even better. 

While there is no need to talk during a massage, some people feel more comfortable with conversation.  I’m not against talking during a massage.  (I’m a social/talkative person by nature)  However, you’ll feel much better if you’re able to give up your brain activity and allow your body to reach an “alpha” state.  Which usually comes with feelings of floating or extreme relaxation.